Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Basket

 
When I was growing up my dad, Ronnie Powell, seemed a bit accident prone. I remember a tractor crank disengaging--slicing his head open. Then there was the tree falling accident that grazed his head, nearly killing him as my brother and I looked on. He was bitten by more snakes that I could have counted.   
As a little boy, my dad fell out of a moving car and fell on the porch steps losing his voice, for a long time. As a young boy, he became very ill and was given a little basket (see photo above) filled with goodies to cheer him up. I  believe that was 1940.
I am now the basket's guardian.
 
 
 
 
My dad today.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

A... Blanket Chest

This was my grandmother's blanket chest. My great grandfather made this chest for his daughter, Minnie Minerva Pitts. The piece of paper confirming this information fell off years ago, but don't worry I have it somewhere and will return it to its place, under the lid.

No hinges on this chest needed because the top lifts off for easy access. I lean the lid against the wall.

What is a blanket chest? I think the original idea might have included a place to store blankets and quilts that were not in use. Often it served two functions: blanket storage, but also young girls would gather household items in hopes of one day getting married.  

Monday, March 24, 2014

Blogging A-Z April Challenge 2014

The first year I joined the A-Z Challenge, I wrote bits and pieces of Grim Tales from the Ruralhood. A couple of people said I should put them into a short story collection so I removed them from my blog and did that.  The second year, I wrote The Waiting Summer, essays about the summer before my senior year. That was fun, reminiscing. You can still read those under the tab, at the top, except be aware that I’m still working on editing them and linking.

Two things I learned about myself writing The Waiting Summer stories. That in the olden days:
~ I was an emotional mess, but aren’t most teens?
~ I wasn’t as fat or ugly as I thought at the time—that is if photos don't actually lie, which is soooo up for debate in my mind.

My A-Z 2014 theme will be—drum roll please: Remembering the Past.

Saturday, March 15, 2014

The Sugar War

At the age of nine, my parents move us to the city of Washington, Illinois. The experience is exciting especially the part where there will be other children to play with, on our street.

*Lily is younger than me and lives on the opposite side of the street, but at the end, near “the creek”. The creek winds its way through its banks and a few trees that we call “the woods”. 

I’m not exactly sure what Lily’s dad does for a living, but I do know he wears a white shirt and slacks to work. I know this because one day I ride with Lily and her mom to pick him up, from his office.  Another thing I know about Lily’s dad is that he brings home free samples to his family. In fact, the cabinets in their basement kitchenette are stuffed with samples, as are the shelves lining the walls and down the center of another room. 
 
One day, we’re playing a 45 record—a Beatles’ song, on the record player, in her basement. John Lennon is my favorite Beatle, she chooses Paul McCartney. At some point, Lily decides to show me the shelving in the next room, brimming with samples. Inside the room, I stand amazed at the assortment of foodstuffs.  

Lily’s voice breaks through my trance as she becomes the tour guide and calls out names of products, sometimes touching the item and sometimes just pointing. She pulls one box from a shelf and names it sugar.

“Our sugar doesn’t look like this.” I challenge her.
“It’s sugar cubes.”

I feel confused, but curious about the box she hands to me. “What’s a sugar cube?”

Lily grabs the package back from me and opens it, folding back the wax paper lining, and pulls out a tiny white cube that sparkles a little. “It’s sugar—that looks like a cube,” she says, popping it in to her mouth.  Then she pulls another cube from the box, grabs my hand and drops it in my palm. 

I turn the cube over again and again, investigating its squareness.

“Eat it.”
When the sugar cube hits my tongue it’s gritty, but soon dissolves into a sweet crunchy mass, begging my teeth to bite down and finish it off.  “Can we take these with us—outside?”

Lily thinks about it, then says, “We’ll have to sneak them out. Mom won’t be happy if she thinks we’re eating a box of sugar.”

Willing and eager to become the smuggler, I pull up my shirt and slide the box between my skinny belly and an elastic waistband. I pull my shirt down over the box. The rectangular outline is obvious so I cross my arms over it, partially to hide it and partially to hold the box in place.

The summer sun is bright and hot when we escape the basement and run to the sparse woods, beside the creek. After we find a stump to share, we sit beside each other and pop one sugar cube after another into our mouths to satisfy our sweet cravings until we eat half of the box of sugar.

Being the sugarholic that I am, I say, “Let’s hide the box and eat the rest tomorrow.”

Lily says yes because she doesn’t want to return a half eaten box of sugar to her basement.

We look around us for a suitable hiding place, but there is none where we're sitting. Then through the sparsely spaced trees, I see a familiar old tree. The tree’s two limbs jet upward, causing a fork, but out from there grows a canopy of limbs covered in leaves. Beneath the fork is a dark hollow that will hide our sugary prize. There’s only problem with my idea, the field is a pasture for a flock of sheep and a cantankerous ram.   

At one time or another, by dare or by accident, nearly every kid in our neighborhood has been chased out of the field by the ram. Lily and I know this about the ram, but decide to use the tree to hide our sugar. The guard ram is a bonus.

At the fence, we look for the ram, then carefully part the barbed wire and help each other through.  On the other side, we run to the tree and shove the box of sugar cubes deep inside the dark hole. It’s then we see, running across the field and in our direction, the charging ram tossing his head around. We know we haven’t much time to escape and run back to the fence and climb through.

It is the next weekend when we meet up again and decide to retrieve the box of sugar for a post-breakfast treat. Outside the fence, we scan the field for the bully ram, but he’s nowhere in sight. Feeling safe, we climb through the wire and run to the tree. I can barely see the top of the box, but I thrust my hand inside the hollow to get it. As I grab hold of the box and pull it out of the black hole, pricks of pain cover my hand.

When my hand surfaces, I see the source of my pain is a swarm of ants clinging to my hand and fighting for the box of sugar cubes that I hold. As their attack increases, I realize the sugar war is over, and I let the box fall to the ground. Shaking the remaining ants from my hands, I surrender our box of sugar to the ants and leave with Lily.  


*Name Changed

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Monkey Business

I’m not sure where we saw a spider monkey, at the zoo, on a television show or maybe I was studying monkeys in school, but my brother and I wanted a monkey.

I was nine or ten years old; he was three years younger. We had moved from our rural home in Missouri to Washington, Illinois. Like most children, I knew that parents needed an occasional manipulation in order to get the answer children desire. Therefore, I was not pleased when my little brother, too young to be trusted to speak for us, blurted out that we wanted a monkey.

Normally this approach did not work well, but our dad didn’t say no. Instead he walked to the kitchen, found a small empty, metal coffee can and walked back to the living room where we waited, confused  by his silence.

“We can have a monkey if you save up for it,” Dad said. “You can put in part or all of your allowances until we have enough money to buy one. As you add money to the can, I’ll add some, too.” With that, Dad pulled his wallet from his back pocket and dropped the first dollar bill into the can.
I know that I had to be grinning from the inside out because I was happy to save for a monkey. I ran to my purse, got out some change and dropped it in. I knew I wouldn’t be able to buy as much nail polish and lip balm as I normally did with my allowance, but that was okay.

As time went by, our childlike commitment waned on the monkey project with contributions dropping to nothing. Good thing, too. What in the world would we have done with a monkey?
Through the years, I’ve thought about the monkey project. I’ve even used it on my own children, from time to time. Instead of saying a flat out “no”, a wise parent supports the ideas and dreams of a child with encouragement and guidance and helping them commit to whatever to that dream means to them. 

It was a good lesson.

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Santa came to the Party


Getting dressed up to go anywhere was a pleasant experience and exciting for a little girl. Between Mom and Grandma Minnie, I was well supplied with beautiful dresses that often rivaled any imaginary princess.
It’s the Christmas season and my brother and I are excited to go to a party—a Christmas party.  We have high hopes that we might receive a present or candy at the party given by Mr. and Mrs. Duncan, good friends of my Grandparents.
 
When we arrive, I’m pleased to see a Christmas tree, but more than that, the niece and nephews of the Duncan's are there, too. During the evening, the adults laugh and talk. The children play. *Anna and I are matched well as playmates, as are our brothers, and there are yummy desserts to eat. I don’t think the party can get any better, but when our attention turns to a commotion at the front door--someone dressed in a red and white suit.
“Ho, Ho, Ho, Merry Christmas!” he shouts.

Santa! I look at my little brother sitting on the floor and his eyes have widened to a quarter's size. My stomach is doing flips, feeling both nervous and excited.


Santa sits in a chair. Then, one by one, Santa lifts each child to his knee and asks what we want for Christmas. When it's my turn, I too sit on his knee, feeling shy. He asks me the same question that he has asked those before me. It is after I tell Santa what I would like for Christmas that I look past his merry façade and realize Santa is Anna's dad.

As I climb down from his knee, I glance over at Anna who is smiling, but not looking at me. At that moment, I think two things. I hope that she doesn't recognize Santa as her dad, and I vow to keep this secret forever.
Fast forward to 2013, when Anna and I have reconnected on Facebook. I post the photo of Santa and me and share the secret I'd kept for so long. Anna, who ended up being a childhood friend, commented on the photo.
 
Teresa, I knew it was my dad, but I hoped my younger brothers still believed.
 
She had carried a secret about Santa, too.

 

~~~

And before you question the wisdom of wearing the Santa mask, I will tell you that perhaps it was common in those days for some Santa's to wear masks or it might be that he wore one  because the risk of being identified was there. No matter  the reason, it didn't seem odd to me at the time.
 

*Name changed to protect the person's identity.

Saturday, December 7, 2013

A Christmas Memory (1)

Growing up rural, we didn’t have lots of extra money, but my parents were generous in giving their children wonderful birthdays and Christmas’s.  Presents consisted of both wants and needs, but more than that, the Dugan-Powell Christmas also consisted of (extended) family gatherings and church activities. Great Christmas memories!
Sometimes we opened our gifts on Christmas Eve, but I remember one Christmas where we were to open our gifts on Christmas Day. My younger sister and I shared one of the two upstairs bedrooms. This didn't seem ideal when I became a teenager. With seven years between us in age, she was still into toys--lots of farming toys with animals--everywhere.  But, sharing a room was necessary and wasn’t as bad as I thought at the time.

One Christmas Eve, during my teen years, my sister had a hard time going to sleep. This happened from time to time, but usually because she was scared or wanted a reason to sleep in my bed, instead of her own. This particular Christmas Eve, however, she was just too excited to sleep. More than once, I told pleaded with her to go to sleep so that Santa could come to our house. I had all but given up my coaxing when, right on cue, we hear a jingling noise on the roof over us.

“Is that Santa?” my little sister whispered.

I was just as surprised as she was and at first said nothing. Then I realized it must be our cat with her bell collar on and took advantage of the opportunity. “Yes! Now go to sleep.”
She closed her eyes and soon thereafter fell asleep (or she pretended well). And all because our cat decided to climb on the roof and give a little jingle of her bell collar. Anyway--I think it was the cat.